Marriage & Relationships
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Breathing Room: Creating Space to Be a
Couple by Elayne, Ph.D. Savage
(Excellent couples book!! Discusses the all important and often
misunderstood art of being intimate without being stifling. What
intimacy is and what it isn't. What the ingredients are for an
intimate relationship. Great affirmations along with couples
discussion topics and exercises. Great primer on setting boundaries
both inside and outside of your relationship. Also discusses your
behaviors when your boundaries have been crossed. I would consider
this a wonderful book for the couple searching for intimacy without
feeling overwhelmed).
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The Seven Principles for Making Marriage
Work by John Mordechai
Gottman, Nan Silver " A very reasonable as well as scientific
approach to marriage. Many marriage-oriented books offer logical
short-term band-aids (e.g., focusing on perceived Mars/Venus gender
differences, communicating better, smoothing over conflicts) that
make for a provocative read and/or admirable goals, but by and large
fail in the long-run to resuscitate shaky marriages. Gottman creates
a path for marital success via theories and exercises with an
established track record for success. Many people wouldn't think
that a fit marriage has to be exercised regularly, no less than
one's body through regular workouts. Gottman's book serves as the
ultimate guide to marital fitness, yet is a valuable read even if
you are unmarried or have already experienced a failed
marriage.
Good
marriages don't necessarily have less conflicts than bad ones.
Gottman gets under the surface and digs into such deeper issues as
the maintaining of HONOR and RESPECT for your partner in the heat of
all-too-common battles. Along the way he punches holes in a lot of
marriage-counseling paradigms. In short, this book can improve a
good marriage (or any similar commitment between two people), heal a
salvageable one, or explain why a bad one got to or beyond the point
of no return.
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15 Minutes to Build a Stronger Marriage : Weekly
Togetherness for Busy Couples by Bobbie Yagel, Myron
Yagel "In this book a couple will gain a deeper understanding of
each other in areas such as love, communication, emotional and
physical intimacy, forgiveness, and spiritual growth. In only 15
minutes a week, busy couples will learn techniques to strengthen
their relationship as well as give substance to the time spent
together. By spending only 15-minutes a week, a busy couple can
gain deeper understanding of each other and learn practical new
techniques to strengthen their relationship."
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The Power of Two: Secrets to a Strong & Loving
Marriage by Susan Heitler, Paula
Singer (Photographer) "I don't really think I got married because of
the book. But after I read the book, I finally could see that it was
possible to be married, remain an individual, and still have a deep
and meaningful relationship. If you think marriage takes away your
independence, read this book--it empowers you." "Reading this book I
finally can understand why my husband and I fight, and how to keep
our marriage more peaceful. People shouldn't be allowed to get a
marriage license until they read this book."
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Together : Making Your Marriage Work from the
Start by Debra Gould, Joe
Gould, Joseph Gould "A really great book about values, boundaries,
mutual support and many more relationship topics which are so
important to having a successful marriage. Highly recommended."
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The Complete Idiot's Guide to the Perfect Marriage
(Complete Idiot's Guide) by
Hillary Rich, Helaina Kravitz (Contributor) "As a married woman for
almost 15 years, I considered myself blessed to have a good
marriage. Having read this book upon the recommendation of a close
friend, I was amazed to find how much better a good thing can
become. My husband and I enjoyed discussing the book and have
adopted quite a few suggestions. This has resulted in us becoming
even closer. Although some of the points seem elementary at first
glance, we were surprised that we had never thought of them
ourselves. A very special thanks for the tips on how to deal with my
in-laws."
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