Grief & Loss
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All Is Not Lost by C.
Leslie Charles Excellent book on Grief and Loss. Understanding and
compassionate look thru parables. Highly
recommended.
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The Grief Recovery Handbook : The Action Program for
Moving Beyond Death Divorce, and Other
Losses by John W. James,
Russell Friedman "Essential for anyone who is experiencing grief,
whether from a recent loss or one many years ago. Shows one how to
complete the process and begin enjoying life anew. I can't recommend
it highly enough. Please try it if you are "locked in limbo" and
unable to experience real joy in your life."
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Good Grief : A Constructive Approach to the Problem of
Loss by Granger E. Westberg
"My 20-year-old son and only child was killed in an automobile
accident 11-2-99. So, my husband and I as well as many family and
friends are still grieving. A good friend sent me this book during
the holidays, but I just read it recently. I was amazed at how the
author so simply, in only a few words, captures the essence of
grieving--not only grieving for one who has died but other grieving
events such as divorce, losing a job, etc. I think the book helped
me most understand what my husband is experiencing because I think
we are in different stages of grieving. I feel that I can better
understand some of his behavior now after reading this book. I plan
to share this powerful book with others, especially young people who
are having an especially difficult time accepting my son's sudden
death."
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A Grief Observed by C. S. Lewis, Chad
Walsh (Afterward) "When my four year-old son, Daniel, in spite of
the prayers of many, died in 1997 after cancer treatments, I was
angry. I had 'grown up' seeing "A Grief Observed" in my dad's
pastoral study but never felt compelled to read it until I was
shattered by my son's death. In the pages I related to Lewis' anger
at God, his doubt, his fear. As a Christian it is comforting to know
other Christians, especially this great man so respected, went
through what I went through too. Lewis articulated my feelings about
his relationship with God so well. I recommend this helpful book to
all who have had to experience an untimely death of a loved
one."
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35 Ways to Help a Grieving Child by Dougy Center Staff
(Editor) "If you know a child who has experienced the death of a
mother, father, caregiver, sister, brother, or friend, you may have
wondered how you can help. The thousands of grieving children and
teens at The Dougy Center have taught us a lot about what does and
doesn't help them. We also hear many caring parents, teachers, and
adult caregivers who want to support children who are grieving but
aren't sure how to go about it. In response to that concern, we've
gathered together the most important stuff we've learned from the
kids, and the result is this guidebook. The information in these
pages is simple and practical and is drawn from the stories of the
children and teenagers who have been on the front lines of grief.
This guidebook addresses how to include children in decision making,
what to expect from different ages of grieving children, and how to
provide safe outlets for children to express emotion."
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After Suicide by John H. Hewett,
Wayne E. Oates (Editor) "Fourteen years ago my mother took her life
after suffering from a lifetime of depression. I found After Suicide
and it was the one thing that helped me live. I have since bought
many copies that I give to families of suicides in my town. My hope
is that this book can be given by someone at the time of the suicide
to families immediately so the healing can start right a
way."
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After the Darkest Hour the Sun Will Shine Again : A
Parent's Guide to Coping With the Loss of a
Child by Elizabeth Mehren,
Harold Kushner (Introduction) "This book has many different stories
of parents struggling to go on after losing a child. I lost a
17-yr-old this year in a car accident and, with that death, I have
felt separated from the everyday lives of my friends. I might as
well be living on another planet. The stories in this book help me
remember that my experience is not unique and, unfortunately, will
be repeated by others. There is consolation in knowing that parents
do survive this loss and that we still would not have missed being
part of our children's lives even if it means going on without them
now."
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